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Popular Divorce Myths You Shouldn't Actually Believe

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No matter how long you've been married or the specific circumstances of your union, going through a divorce is going to be an emotional time fraught with confusion. That's why it's so important to have reliable divorce help from experienced attorneys. But whether you're going through a divorce yourself or simply know someone who is, you might be inclined to believe certain beliefs about this situation that aren't actually true. We're dispelling some of those more prevalent myths today. The more you know, the better position you'll be in to navigate this process or provide support to someone who needs it.

MYTH: Getting a divorce always entails a lengthy court case

Reality: Just as there are all kinds of marriages and relationships, there are many ways a divorce can be resolved. Many times, former partners can work out agreements through mediation, especially if both parties are committed to an amicable dissolution of the partnership. However, this isn't always possible. In contentious divorces or in situations that are particularly complicated, you and your divorce lawyers may have to go to court. And of course, it's important to have divorce help to ensure your rights are protected, whether you'll actually have to fight it out in court or not.

MYTH: Half of all married couples will eventually divorce

Reality: There's a widely held belief that 50% of all marriages end in divorce. But those statistics are actually quite inaccurate. According to a recent piece published in the New York Times, U.S. divorce rates reached their highest point in the 70s and 80s and have actually been going down ever since. So really, things aren't as bad as they may seem. Divorce rates have decreased these days due to many factors, including waiting longer to tie the knot, marrying for love, and living together before marriage. That said, divorce is still very commonplace. In the United States, one divorce occurs approximately every 36 seconds, which equates to 2,400 divorces per day. Clearly, it's still a situation that countless Americans experience - just not as many as you might be inclined to believe.

MYTH: It's better to get your divorce over with as quickly as possible

Reality: During this highly emotional time, you'll probably want to get everything settled quickly for the sake of your finances, your family, and your own emotional health. Some people might think it'll be easy enough to open up the matter of a divorce settlement (like custody or child support) later on. While it's true that these matters can be addressed again down the road, it may not always be as simple as you'd think to do so. That's why rushing into settlement terms isn't a good idea. Although no one wants to go through lengthy divorce proceedings, getting everything ironed out now with your divorce lawyers will serve you far better than making unfair compromises you assume you can change later.

MYTH: Fathers never get equal custody of their children

Reality: While there was a time when it was extremely rare for fathers to receive full or equal custody, those days are long gone. Judges determine custody based on the best interests of the children involved, rather than on the gender of their parents. The father has the same legal rights of the mother when it comes to parental responsibility, as long as domestic violence or drug abuse is not a factor in the divorce. Still, it's important that both parties have reputable divorce help to ensure their rights are protected, particularly during custody negotiations.

Now that you know the truth behind these divorce myths, you'll be better informed if you or someone you know decides to pursue a divorce. Regardless of the circumstances, no one should never go into this situation alone. For more information on divorce help or to schedule a consultation with our attorneys, contact us today.

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